Memorial of St. Bernard, Abbot and Doctor of the Church
(Matthew 19)
A team of psychologists recently analyzed data of surveys given to college students over the last twenty years. They report that there is an increasing amount of narcissism among American youth. Although a positive self image is desirable, the psychologists claim that narcissism, which is an exaggerated self-image, often results in social pathology. Difficulty forming meaningful relationships, materialism, and greater likelihood of infidelity, substance abuse, and violence are all associated with narcissism. Is it any wonder then that there are few vocations today to the priesthood and religious life?
The young man in the gospel demonstrates a bit of narcissism. He appears both sincere and good-hearted as he confronts Jesus. No doubt he keeps all the commandments as he says. But eternal life for the Gospel of Matthew, and even more for the Gospel of John, means to follow Jesus. For this earnest young man at least following Jesus will require dispossessing himself of his riches to walk at Jesus’ side. But, of course, it seems too great a sacrifice for the person because he loves his riches.
Jesus’ words should test all of us. Although most of us do not have to sell all that we have for the sake of the poor, each of us is called to follow Jesus. This means listening to his words and dialoguing with him in prayer. It also includes acting with intentionality and generosity in whatever he asks of us personally. Is it hard? Maybe, but we must not forget that we are after the same goal of the rich young man. We too seek eternal life.
