Monday of the Twentieth Week in Ordinary Time
(Matthew 19:16-22)
A team of psychologists recently analyzed data of surveys given to college students over the last twenty years. They report that there is an increasing amount of narcissism among American youth. Although a positive self image is desirable, the psychologists claim that narcissism, which is an exaggerated self-image, often results in social pathology. Difficulty forming meaningful relationships, materialism, and greater likelihood of infidelity, substance abuse, and violence are all associated with narcissism. Is it any wonder then that contemporary marriages often fail?
The young man in the gospel demonstrates a bit of narcissism. He appears both sincere and good-hearted as he confronts Jesus. No doubt he keeps all the commandments as he says. But eternal life means following Jesus through the cross to glory. For this earnest young man the journey requires dispossessing himself of his riches. It is a price too steep to pay because the young man enjoys his wealth.
Jesus’ words test all of us. Although he does not ask most people to sell everything for the sake of the poor, he does call everyone to follow him. He wants us to reflect over the words of the gospel and to effectively act on them. Is it hard? Perhaps. But, of course, we can count on Jesus to help us with the load.
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Homilette for Monday, August 20, 2007
Memorial of St. Bernard, Abbot and Doctor of the Church
(Matthew 19)
A team of psychologists recently analyzed data of surveys given to college students over the last twenty years. They report that there is an increasing amount of narcissism among American youth. Although a positive self image is desirable, the psychologists claim that narcissism, which is an exaggerated self-image, often results in social pathology. Difficulty forming meaningful relationships, materialism, and greater likelihood of infidelity, substance abuse, and violence are all associated with narcissism. Is it any wonder then that there are few vocations today to the priesthood and religious life?
The young man in the gospel demonstrates a bit of narcissism. He appears both sincere and good-hearted as he confronts Jesus. No doubt he keeps all the commandments as he says. But eternal life for the Gospel of Matthew, and even more for the Gospel of John, means to follow Jesus. For this earnest young man at least following Jesus will require dispossessing himself of his riches to walk at Jesus’ side. But, of course, it seems too great a sacrifice for the person because he loves his riches.
Jesus’ words should test all of us. Although most of us do not have to sell all that we have for the sake of the poor, each of us is called to follow Jesus. This means listening to his words and dialoguing with him in prayer. It also includes acting with intentionality and generosity in whatever he asks of us personally. Is it hard? Maybe, but we must not forget that we are after the same goal of the rich young man. We too seek eternal life.
(Matthew 19)
A team of psychologists recently analyzed data of surveys given to college students over the last twenty years. They report that there is an increasing amount of narcissism among American youth. Although a positive self image is desirable, the psychologists claim that narcissism, which is an exaggerated self-image, often results in social pathology. Difficulty forming meaningful relationships, materialism, and greater likelihood of infidelity, substance abuse, and violence are all associated with narcissism. Is it any wonder then that there are few vocations today to the priesthood and religious life?
The young man in the gospel demonstrates a bit of narcissism. He appears both sincere and good-hearted as he confronts Jesus. No doubt he keeps all the commandments as he says. But eternal life for the Gospel of Matthew, and even more for the Gospel of John, means to follow Jesus. For this earnest young man at least following Jesus will require dispossessing himself of his riches to walk at Jesus’ side. But, of course, it seems too great a sacrifice for the person because he loves his riches.
Jesus’ words should test all of us. Although most of us do not have to sell all that we have for the sake of the poor, each of us is called to follow Jesus. This means listening to his words and dialoguing with him in prayer. It also includes acting with intentionality and generosity in whatever he asks of us personally. Is it hard? Maybe, but we must not forget that we are after the same goal of the rich young man. We too seek eternal life.
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