Sunday, December 28, 2025

 

THE FEAST OF THE HOLY FAMILY
(Sirach 3:3-7, 14-17; Colossians 3:12-21; Matthew 2:13-15, 19-23)

Let us begin our reflection today by turning our attention to the second reading. In the Letter to the Colossians, we are urged to put on love, “the bond of perfection.” The author wants “the word of Christ” — not the word of the street — to dwell within us. He further desires that everything we say and everything we do be done “in the name of the Lord Jesus.”

Sadly, many people are unaware of or ignore this guidance from on high. A journalist notes how hatred among races and religions has been increasing in our society. As evidence, he points to the behavior of a certain group of young people who, instead of showing disapproval or outrage, complacently allow remarks portraying Jews as dishonest. He also mentions another organization that failed to correct a member who described African-Americans in dehumanizing terms.

The journalist goes on to observe that such hateful discrimination is accompanied by the coarsening of everyday language. Today, vulgar words — especially those referring to sexual intimacy — are spoken aloud and tolerated, even in the parental home. And with far less reluctance than a generation ago, people suggest the inferiority of poor minorities. It is as if, in order to appear honest or authentic, one must expose the most primitive impulses of the human heart.

All of this coarse and degrading speech runs contrary to the teaching of Jesus Christ. In his saving work, Christ raised humanity to its highest dignity in history. He taught that it is more honorable to support the needy in their distress than to enrich oneself. A mother in a film expressed this truth simply: “There are two paths in life: the path of nature and the path of grace.” She continued saying that nature is self-centered and seeks control over everything, while grace opens outward in the gift of oneself.

Saint Joseph stands as a model of a life lived with grace. He speaks no offensive words in the Gospels; in fact, he speaks no words at all, because he is a man of righteous deeds rather than empty speech. Saint Joseph faithfully obeys God’s commands and instructions without complaint or delay. In today’s Gospel, he takes his family to Egypt during the massacre of the innocents; he returns when the persecution ends; and brings Jesus and Mary to Nazareth, where they can live in peace.

Jesus himself provides an even deeper example, because his grace goes far beyond outward imitation. Being God, he enters our hearts to transform them from within. He moves us in countless ways; let us mention just three. Grace enables us to grow in dignity and wisdom in the context of our families.  It strengthens us against the vices of greed and lust that tear families apart.  Finally, it increases our love for one another despite defects.  It is through this love purified by sacrifice that we catch a glimpse of God.

 


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